Escape the rat race!

Both my husband and I have been executives for more than a decade each all while trying to enjoy our family and, well, life! It hasn’t been easy and I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve had to choose work over my family. I’m tired of telling my kids, “Oh I’m sorry sweetie, I can’t come to your NJHS Induction because I have to work!” or “Your orchestra concert is this Wednesday?! I’ve got a meeting that evening…..I won’t be able to go!”

I get one shot at my family and living my best life so I refuse to allow my work to get in the way of my family any longer! When, and if, I’m ready to return to the line of work I left it will still be there while the time I have to build memories and enjoy my family are limited. I was inspired and realized I had to make a change after reading Your Money or Your Life, by Vicki Robin.

There is a way to lead the kind of life you want to lead without being chained to your work. While I’m only beginning this journey towards freeing myself of debt and looking at how I earn and spend money in new ways, I have really had to reflect on my thinking (and habits!) when it comes to money. I’d much rather choose my life than my money and so that’s what I’m doing! As I go through this journey I will share my lessons learned, hardships, celebrations, and I hope you will be inspired to find your path to your best life too.

The journey begins!

My whole life is about to change…..actually, scratch that.  My whole life is already changing.  As I type this I’m waiting for an offer on our house to come in, trying to figure out what my next steps are going to be for work (did I really just quit my job?!), and how we are going to possibly downsize our life from five bedrooms in the suburbs to two bedrooms in the country. I’m leaving the landlocked state I grew up in and have lived in for 41 years and moving to one surrounded by ocean…..whoa. 

The Water View

Regardless of all of this questioning and unknown, what I do know is that I’m heading on a journey long overdue.  A simpler life in a dream location on the water near the ocean.  A life where I’m working to live instead of the other way around.  A life where I can give myself the attention I need and deserve as well as my precious family.  I’ve got some lofty goals  that I’m taking the first steps toward:  

  1. Secure remote work so my day is my own and I can enjoy my new river life with my family. 
  2. Become debt free so we can spend less time working and more time living.  
  3. Claim my own life back- focus on my physical, emotional, and mental health so I can be the best mom, wife, daughter, freelancer, etc. I can be.
  4. Simplify my life- less stuff less worry, get organized! 
  5. Enjoy sundowners as a new tradition for me and my husband while sitting on our dock and watching the sunset over the river. 

So here’s to taking the first steps on this journey going from “Land Locked” to “Water Views!”

Taking the first step into Water Views!